Discord rules
House rules.
Last updated October 24, 2026
The romance server is small and we want to keep it nice. Read these once, follow them, and enjoy yourself. By staying in the server you agree to them.
Be decent
No harassment, hate, slurs or threats. Disagree without being cruel. If someone asks you to stop, stop.
Keep it safe
No NSFW or gore. Nothing sexual involving minors, ever, and we report it. Don’t share anyone’s private information, including your own where it could hurt you.
No spam or ads
No spam, scams, unrequested advertising or self-promo, and no unsolicited DMs. Don’t beg for invites. Requests go to hello@romance.rip.
Be yourself
Don’t impersonate other people, staff or the bot. Staff will never ask for your password, your link code or your email login.
Use the right channel
Keep chat in chat and questions in support. Stay on the topic of the channel you’re in.
Follow Discord’s rules too
Discord’s Terms of Service and Community Guidelines apply here. Stay within them.
Linking your account
The /link command connects your Discord to your romance page. Only use it with a code from your own dashboard, and never share your code with anyone.
What staff can do
Staff may warn, mute, kick or ban people, and delete messages, at their discretion. Serious things get a ban straight away.
If you think we got it wrong, email abuse@romance.rip or message @zaifying.
See something wrong?
Ping a mod or write to abuse@romance.rip. Please don’t start a fight about it in chat.